Welcome to #SoulTies 5. In #SoulTies 5, we see how your walk with God is affected by your sex life. If God has no dominion over your sex life, then He has no dominion over your entire life. We see here how Solomon & Samson got their relationships with God messed up by indulging in fornication and adultery. A man who opened the temple under so much great anointing became a man confused as to whether he should worship God or idols of his concubines. How come? Sex with his concubines brought this confusion. Pre-marital sex and extra-marital sex is VERY BAD for you. Your soul gets chipped away each time you do it and your worship of God is no longer intimate and engaging. You disobey God when you do it. You also contact sexually transmitted diseases and spiritually transmitted diseases.
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5. Today, we are discussing sex & #SoulTies. Terminology may be very graphic and detailed so please bear with us.
6. As it is our custom we start with a bible reading and we dive in afterwards. #SoulTies
7. 1 Thess 5:23 I pray God your whole spirit and soul & body be preserved blameless unto d coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. #SoulTies
8. We all on earth are made up of spirit,soul & body.Ur spirit is God conscious, soul self conscious, body sense conscious. #SoulTies
9. When you accepted Christ, it is only your spirit that got reborn. Your soul and body didnít change. 2 Cor 5:17 #SoulTies
10. The day you got saved, your mind still remembered everywhere you have been and you didnít grow any taller. #SoulTies
11. Your soul is made up of your mind, emotions and will. After you get saved, your mind is in the process of being saved. #SoulTies
12. Your emotions control how you feel. Your mind controls how you think. Your will controls your decisions. #SoulTies
13. Things that took place in your soul before you got saved donít automatically go away at new birth. #SoulTies
14. Ur life flows in the direction of ur thinking so we donít see the nature of God in ur conduct until u apply Godís Word. #SoulTies
15. Now letís jump into sex. God gave mankind a commandment in Gen 1:28 #SoulTies
16. Gen 1:28 and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it and have dominion #SoulTies
17. God said they should multiply (that can only happen by sex) and then have dominion. Your sexuality is tied to dominion. #SoulTies
18. God designed this sex to only happen between husband and wife. Iíll run through 3 reasons why God gave sex. #SoulTies
19. Because dominion is tied to sex, if God doesnít have control over your sexuality, then He has no control over your life. #SoulTies
20. God marked Abraham in the area of his sexuality before he began to do serious business with him. #SoulTies
21. Sister, please don’t do any relationship business with any man whose sexuality isn’t marked by God. aka Chastity #SoulTies
22. 1st reason God gave sex was for consummation of the marriage covenant between man and woman. #SoulTies
23. His original purpose was that only one man was to ever penetrate his wife sexually in her entire lifetime. #SoulTies
24. Consummation by sex was to bind their souls in the deepest possible way. #SoulTies
25. So on wedding night. When the manís apparatus is hardened blood rushes there, and then he penetrates his wife #SoulTies
26. The hymen which is token of her virginity splits, her blood rushes over male organ & semen containing his blood mixes with hers.
27. Then you have a marriage covenant. Their blood mixes together and their souls become tied. How do I know this? #SoulTies
28. The life of d flesh or d soul is in d blood. So when you pour your blood anywhere, you are pouring out your life & soul. #SoulTies
29. In sex, you exchange fluids with your partner. Your fluids convey your blood. Hence, you share blood in sex. #SoulTies
30. So when you have sex and share blood, you exchange fragments of your souls with each other and STRONG #SoulTies are formed.
31. When u have sex with one u are not married to u create confusion in d spirit realm because u are celebrating a marriage. #SoulTies
32. U slept with 40 girls & u married the 41st one, u have married 41 people in the spirit realm and tied your souls to them. #SoulTies
33. 30 men slept with you and then you settled for the 31st, in the spirit realm u have had 31 marriages. How does that sound? #SoulTies
34. Lady, whoever lays u is your head. If 40 people do, then you have 40 heads and you become a freak who cant focus. #SoulTies
35. Guys, can we go in harder on this subtopic. In basic biology, men have Y chromosomes and women have X chromosomes. #SoulTies
36. During sex, Y chromosomes arrive from the manís semen to meet X chromosomes in the woman to form a baby. #SoulTies
37. However, a recent study found some women had male DNA in their systems which could only have come from Y soldiers. #SoulTies
38. Please read this study carefully to know the reasons why you can end up with traces of male DNA. http://dld.bz/drRJ4 #SoulTies
39. Now I know, why some cultures unjustifiably, maliciously and criminally abduct female kids for wives. #SoulTies
40. Through intercourse alone there is a potential for women to hold onto male genes and DNA within their blood stream #SoulTies
41. This means that there is a possibility of your past sexual partners along with your husband sharing the DNA of your kids. #SoulTies
42. Virginity is something VERY precious to God. If you keep it till wedding night, you celebrate marriage Gods preferred way. #SoulTies
43. Donít let any evil friend despise your virginity as a man or woman. Itís often attacked by those who regret losing theirs. #SoulTies
44. If u are not a virgin, we still cool. Its not the end of the world but don’t beef the people who still have theirs intact. #SoulTies
45. 2nd reason God gave sex is for procreation. To have kids. Immigrants are taking over Europe by rolling out tons of kids. #SoulTies
46. You dominate in a sense by numbers. So multiplication facilitates dominion. #SoulTies
47. North Korea cannot be rolled over by the US so cheaply because of their size and capacity. #SoulTies
48. U donít just hit a country that size without proper thought because they hurt d South Koreans very badly in a few seconds #SoulTies
49. You canít dominate without numbers, you canít increase or multiply numbers without sex. Sex is a domination tool. #SoulTies
50. No amount of border control can make immigration issues go away as long as the babies are being made in large numbers. #SoulTies
51. 3rd reason God gave sex is for recreation aka have fun with your spouse #SoulTies
52. Three reasons for sex once again; consummation, procreation and recreation. All three to be practiced ONLY in marriage. #SoulTies
53. There is no such thing as safe sex.Thereís only saved sex.Saved sex is only in marriage.Others are unsafe & Iíll prove it. #SoulTies
54. When Adam had sex with Eve his wife, the bible says he knew his wife. When Lots daughters slept with him, they were laid. #SoulTies
55. Ladies: sex in marriage, your husband knew you. Sex outside marriage, you only got laid. They donít sound the same. #SoulTies
56. Fornication (sex outside marriage is not safe). You may escape aids but thereís more stuff you didnít escape. #SoulTies
57. Some American kid jubilated on my TL that hospital declared him aids-free. What has he done? #SoulTies
58. Heís only just told us he had unprotected sex & he was scared that he could have picked up AIDS from the girl. #SoulTies
59. When you go around laying with men or women or men and women you pick up bad stuff & leave bad stuff behind #SoulTies
60. He escaped AIDS but he didnít escape the chipping away and the binding of his soul with the girlís. #SoulTies
61. When Lotís daughters laid with him, they produced 2 sons. Moab & Ammon. These are 2 products of fornication. Right? #SoulTies
62. In 2Chron 20:10-11. Please can u read & tell me the countries that wanted to rob Israel of their inheritance? #SoulTies
63. The countries that rose to trouble Israel on the verge of their inheritance were Moab & Ammon & Seir. #SoulTies
64. Satan assigns d Moabites & Ammonites of your past (products of fornication) to buffet you when u enter ur inheritance. #SoulTies
65. Some boy tweeted the picture of a girl on her wedding day in her gown to say that he hit it first. I was very disgusted. #SoulTies
66. I begged the boy to please take the photo down as I couldnít imagine the pain the girl would go through seeing that tweet. #SoulTies
67. Itís her Moabites and Ammonites (her ugly sexual past) that had come to ruin the joy of her inheritance that Saturday. #SoulTies
68. Itís why great & popular men are sunk by their sexual pasts. Ur Moabites & Ammonites are ur sexual past trying to break u #SoulTies
69. A few other things happen when you fornicate as in lay with person you are not married to. Iíll quickly run through them. #SoulTies
70. 1) You enter the spirit realm illegally when you fornicate as in you marry that person in the spirit realm. #SoulTies
71. So when you shack up with 10 people, you have celebrated marriage with 10 people illegally in the spirit realm. #SoulTies
72. 2) You join yourself to the spirit of harlotry. What is harlotry? #SoulTies
73. Harlot is bible word for fancy words like hoe, slut & whore. U pick up d demon of harlotry in fornication. I Cor 6:15-20 #SoulTies
74. 3) You become a weapon in satanís arsenal. You leave ugly stuff behind and you pick up ugly stuff to transfer on. #SoulTies
75. U are a weapon in satanís arsenal when you lay around with folks cos you carry sexual diseases from person to person. #SoulTies
76. U are a weapon in satanís arsenal when you lay around with folks cos you transfer demons around if you missed d diseases. #SoulTies
77. 4) When you have sex with a person, you exchange your souls and tie your souls together. #SoulTies
78. This then makes relationship breakups very traumatic cos the strongest #SoulTies are formed through sex. #SoulTies
79. Moving on from broken relationships becomes difficult cos Joe has left with a part of ur soul and u canít focus anymore. #SoulTies
80. Moving on from Genevieve becomes very difficult cos none of the next 3 girls give sex that is as good as Genevieveís. #SoulTies
81. Now you are married but you still crave for sex with Genevieve cos she provides a better experience than your virgin wife. #SoulTies
82. There was an account several years ago of a girl screaming the name ìRegieî during a deliverance session in church. #SoulTies
83. Regie was her ex-boyfriend who was installed like a computer virus in her soul as a result of sexual #SoulTies with him.
84. 5) When you fornicate you enter into whoredom.What is whoredom? The domain or dominion of the whore. #SoulTies
85. The domain or dominion of the whore is a place where the whore is in control of you through having sex with her. #SoulTies
86. Havenít you seen the quote on Twitter saying that ëBitches rule hereí?. Iíll explain where it came from in the bible. #SoulTies
87. These are women who are aware of their sexual power and use it profitably to control great men who have resources. #SoulTies
88. Hosea 4:6 says people perish for lack of knowledge. We quote it generally a lot. Specifically, its knowledge of Hosea 4:12 #SoulTies
89. People perish in Hosea 4:6 because they lacked a knowledge of what happened in Hosea 4:12. #SoulTies
90. In Hosea 4:12. They erred by entering into the control or the dominion of the whore through illegal sexual activity. #SoulTies
91. If people knew what happened in the domain of the whore they wonít go there through the ladder of fornication. #SoulTies
92. 2 men came under the domination of whores and letís see what happened to them as a result. #SoulTies
93. Men: Please bear in mind that you come under the dominion of the whore through your unbridled sexual appetite. #SoulTies
94. I feel lonely on twitter now. Yíall gone quiet on me. Please someone help me with a hallelujah in this Presbyterian Church #SoulTies
95. Samson lied down on Delilahís laps and got his hair cut in the devilís barber shop. Oops! #SoulTies
96. Samson was anointed 2 deliver Israel but wasted the anointing trying to sort his own personal life out. #SoulTies
97. What happened to Samson in whoreís domain? 3 things. Demons of slumber, vexation and delusion got him. #SoulTies
98. 1) His soul was vexed. Vexation means oppression. Delilah continued to oppress him through his unbridled sexual appetite. #SoulTies
99. Delilah tried so much to get him to do what he shouldn’t do. Thatís vexation and oppression. #SoulTies
100. In vexation, the whore you are sleeping with makes silly demands on your resources and thatís how they rule you. #SoulTies
101. Vexation is when ur mistress calls you at 10pm and insists you should come over when really want to be with your family. #SoulTies
102. You just canít say no to her because she is ëmore excitingí and you sneak out of the house. Thatís vexation. #SoulTies
103. After vexation is 2) Spirit of slumber. You no longer want to worship God the way you used to. No bible reading or prayer. #SoulTies
104. Ur spiritual senses are suspended when you are under the dominion of the whore. Satan strikes best when you r asleep. #SoulTies
105. 3) The spirit of delusion. You become deluded spiritually when you are sold to sexual sin. Samson became deluded. #SoulTies
106. He tried to shake himself like before but didnít realize spirit of God was gone because he was deluded. #SoulTies
107. Solomon also became deluded as he struggled to worship both the real God and the idols of his wives and concubines. #SoulTies
108. The #SoulTies Solomon had with his foreign wives destroyed his worship of God and affected his inheritance significantly. #SoulTies
109. Solomonís soul was split in hundreds of ways over which of the gods he was to worship. What caused the split? Illegal Sex. #SoulTies
110. What explanation do you have a man who dedicated the temple with so much Gods power on display now being confused .. #SoulTies
111. ..as to whether he should worship the only true God or the demons that his whores injected into his life through kinky sex. #SoulTies
112. Solomon lost spiritual zeal for God. Under the domain of the whore, your spiritual life goes downhill. #SoulTies
113. We all saw a few weeks ago how a great man in the West came under the dominion of a whore and parted with a business. #SoulTies
114. Ladies: each time a man lays you, your soul is split and you are scattered. When a man hits you, he splits you. #SoulTies
115. So you marry, a part of you is with Kunle, a part with Musa, a part with Chike so your husband Tim only has part of you. #SoulTies
116. You canít escape o, men. You have been with Kudi, Ngozi & Halima. Each of them has a part of your soul. How? #SoulTies
117. When u are with ur wife, u are comparing d experience with Kudi, Ngozi & Halima so your soul is split across all of them. #SoulTies
118. A few words on #SoulTies and break ups and divorce. A divorce is a very unpleasant experience for men & women & kids. #SoulTies
119. A divorce simply means your force is divided cos itís difficult to completely walk away from an ex wife or husband. #SoulTies
120. 2nd marriages usually have 95% failure rate & 3rd marriages usually 99% failure rate. Reason it doesnít get better is this. #SoulTies
121. When u split from a person, not all of u left with u. If u had several break ups before marrying, it has its toll too. #SoulTies
122. U need to break those #SoulTies with prayer & Godís Word for subsequent relationships to be pleasant and free of trouble. #SoulTies
123. Lastly, Proverbs 23:27: A whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit. Deep ditch means polluted waters. #SoulTies
124. Satan targets preachers, musicians and choir members because rivers come out of them. Whoredom pollutes these rivers. #SoulTies
125. So if ur pastor, choir member, choir boss are shacking up with members in sex, then they are pouring polluted waters on u. #SoulTies
126. So I submit to u that sexual misconduct has deep ramifications, deeper than what that boy trying to con u into it knows. #SoulTies
127. I submit to you Bro, it isn’t just a quick release we are talking here, its something with more profound ramifications. #SoulTies
128. Guys, we call it a day here. Itís been nice hanging out with you here for #SoulTies. Hope yíall still love me. #SoulTies
129. Please retweet these to your TL so others can be blessed. Link up with me by your preferred means, if any concerns. #SoulTies
130. Please feel free to add me up on BB using 52C7F3CD or email me on email@example.com #SoulTies
131. Catch u guys soon. Pls watch out for my #SoulTies column on my friend’s (@kemisolafilani) blog, tomorrow. http://www.kemifilani.com
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November 8, 2013 at 1:03 am
God bless u sir! Av rily gained n learnt frm ds Soul Ties 5…my spirit is filled nd blessed! May God Almighty strengthen U nd continue 2 fill u wit His words ! IJN
November 8, 2013 at 1:48 am
Amen! Thanks so much for your kind words. Please don’t forget to view the latest tweet cast for tonight on http://www.twitter.com/solaadio Tweets 1-142
November 8, 2013 at 10:57 am
nice write up….kudos!
November 8, 2013 at 10:58 am
Aww! Thanks so much
December 12, 2013 at 7:03 pm
I ve been blessed with this great insight into the errors
we youth have been committing due to ignorance and our I don’t care
attitude. May God refill your anointing and replenish this vessel.
at the coming of our lord Jesus Christ you will not be found
wanting. thankyou once again sir for your messages.
December 12, 2013 at 7:47 pm
Aww! Thanks so much and God bless.
January 20, 2014 at 9:17 am
I have learnt a lot here, so what is the solution after one
finds him/herself guilty of all these. God bless
January 20, 2014 at 9:30 am
We haven’t treated that in a self contained mode yet. However, Soul Ties 10-14 loosely talk about how to avoid continuing in illicit relationships. Also, the Google+ hangout we had yesterday addressed how to be rid of bad habits.
This is the page that’s got the hangout:
Additionally, you can hook up with me on BB if you need to discuss any specifics. You’ll find the pin at the end of the #SoulTies 5 article.
March 25, 2014 at 3:23 pm
Thank you for this, its the truth that most of us weren’t told as our elders shyed from them. I have in particular been marveled by the consummation part of marriage. I never knew how important and critical it is. I have actually learnt that marriage is a blood covenant. Now my question is, what happens to people that lost the virginity before they knew the Lord, after they are saved and cleansed, is their consummation sealed, cos they is no blood shed. what seals their marriage covenant? what about virgins who get married by non-virgins? is it one sided covenant or what?
March 31, 2014 at 12:53 am
Very good questions. What I described in #SoulTies 5, is the ideal and preferred way of God. If they lost their tokens of virginity before they married, history cannot be re-written. In fact, some people could even have been raped i.e. made to have sex without their consent. If only one of them is chaste, it isn’t a one-sided covenant cos technically it is sex that consummates the covenant. Just that God’s ideal way is that blood is spilled that night but if it can’t be spilled God still recognises the union too.
May 14, 2014 at 12:50 pm
Thanx For the reply. God bless you, as you continue with His good work.
naana afisei gyamfi
June 24, 2014 at 11:00 am
God bless u abundantly for this piece. I ve really learnt. Wld like to have one on one with u. Thnx.
June 24, 2014 at 11:02 am
No problem. Please add me to your BB. You’ll find my pin on the blog
naana afisei gyamfi
June 24, 2014 at 12:24 pm
Unfortunately I’m not on bbm. Can it b on DMs on twitter?
June 24, 2014 at 12:28 pm
July 9, 2014 at 5:15 pm
This is so insightful. Learnt a lot reading this piece. All I can say is that may God continue to increase you in wisdom and strength. More power to your elbow.
July 9, 2014 at 5:20 pm
Thanks a lot for your kind words and prayers.
August 9, 2014 at 5:40 am
Super inspirational and revelational. It can’t be over emphasized that the destruction gotten from pre-marital sex and extra-marital sex is greater than the few minutes of pleasure. Thank you sir for being a blessing God bless you.
September 10, 2014 at 11:44 am
Am soo excited I have the opportunity to read this now. Am still very young and with this am sure I will be on the right track… Thank you soo much sir. May the Almighty God bless and replenish you
November 1, 2014 at 6:12 pm
people need to read this. wow.
October 21, 2017 at 2:49 pm
Would there still be a soul-tie if the man had become disinterested in the sexual activity and discontinued it before releasing his semen into the woman?